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You’re Not Broken.

Your Relationship Isn’t Either.

You Just Need the Right Tools.

Real love takes work but it shouldn’t feel like a full-time job.

Reignite Your Connection. Rebuild Your Team.

Life moves fast. Relationships get stretched thin.

Before you know it, you're stuck in the same arguments, growing further apart from the person who is supposed to matter most.

You’re tired of surface-level fixes. You’re done pretending you’re ok with how things are.

But you want more: more honesty, more ease, more depth.

You want the joy back.

The path back to each other starts here.

I’ll help you cut through the noise, break old patterns, and build a relationship that surprises you in all the best ways.

No hacks. No fluff. Just the real work and real results that actually last.

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Welcome

My name is Carolyn sharp

Three decades as a therapist, coach, educator, author, and zero interest in sugarcoating. I help couples stop the spiral and start feeling close again because your relationship deserves more than survival.

About Me

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Commit.

Let go of ambivalence and commit fully to your relationships for your greatest health

Learn.

Understand your relationship dynamics and learn a better way connection

Practice.

Create lasting happiness quickly by developing new behaviors and habits

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Resource For Your Relationship

Introducing Carolyn Sharp’s New Book: Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship

Feeling stuck, disconnected, or missing the spark in your relationship? Fire It Up is your guide to reigniting love, connection, and joy. With a clear four-step process, couples therapist Carolyn Sharp offers practical tools and heartfelt advice to transform your relationship. Whether it’s struggling, feeling stale, or just in need of a little care, this book will help you create lasting change with humor and authenticity.

Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship is published by Flashpoint and is available now wherever books are sold! 🌟

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Psychobiological approach to relationship coaching in Seattle

Led by Carolyn Sharp, Secure Connections offers individual coaching, couples coaching, corporate relationship consulting, VIP experiences, retreats, and workshops—serving Northern Massachusetts and clients worldwide via Zoom.

I help people transform how they show up in every relationship that matters—from marriage to leadership teams—using cutting-edge science on attachment, neurobiology, and communication.

You'll learn how to spot reactive patterns in real time, meet needs more skillfully, and build strong, secure, and sustainable connections based on mutuality, collaboration, and fairness.

When you understand the human drive for connection, everything changes.

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In the words of Maya Angelou, when we know better, we do better.

At Secure Connections, we are working to bringing you relationship insights to expand your awareness.

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Grab Lifetime Access to The Fire It Up Marriage Accelerator Self Study Program! $99 off through August 15 with the code "AUGUSTLOVE"

You’re Not Broken. Your Relationship Isn’t Either. You Just Need the Right Tools.