Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship

My new book is coming out! I am thrilled to share the pre-order information for Fire It Up. Publishing January 7, 2025 by Flashpoint Press, I am hopeful that this will be a great support to couples wanting more for their relationship. Pre-Order the book anywhere books are sold, by clicking on the photo above.

In 'Fire It Up', you’ll find a practical, science-based guide to building a lasting, fulfilling relationship. This book debunks the myth that love should be effortless and provides practical tools for nurturing a strong partnership. From creating a solid foundation of shared values to keeping the spark alive with intentional passion and play, 'Fire It Up' covers what truly sustains love over time.

Through this book, you’ll discover:

- How to create a solid foundation of shared purpose, values, and vision that act as a bedrock for your relationship.

- Tools for balancing closeness and independence, so you can support each other’s individuality while staying connected.

- Practical ways to “feed” your relationship with open communication, fairness, and reciprocity to foster trust and security.

- Tips for maintaining attraction and joy in your partnership, keeping the spark alive through intentional passion and fun.

'Fire It Up' empowers you to prioritize and nurture your relationship without compromising individuality, offering tools and insights to keep the fire alive. Whether you’re facing challenges or simply looking to deepen your connection, this book provides a roadmap for cultivating a thriving partnership that grows with you over the years.

For those in Seattle, you are invited to join me at Third Place Books on January 7, where there will be a reading and discussion, along with an opportunity to ask questions and get your book signed. Click on the photo to RSVP and get a copy from your local independent book store! For those in other places, stay tuned for more events and opportunities.

I look forward to seeing many of you at these events and to hearing what you think!

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